<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406</id><updated>2012-01-09T22:52:30.658-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A L A I Y O's           M U S I N G S</title><subtitle type='html'>Digging right down to the bottom of my soul...</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>21</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-5416006592737994934</id><published>2012-01-09T22:44:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T22:52:30.667-08:00</updated><title type='text'>THINKING with "A Girl You Should Date"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Remember the time...&lt;br /&gt;- when we made mixed tapes?&lt;br /&gt;- when having our own landline (then pager, then cellphone) made us feel so cool?&lt;br /&gt;- when we used to swap pocketbooks with classmates and friends?&lt;br /&gt;- when we listened to the radio to catch our favorite song so we could jot down its lyrics?&lt;br /&gt;- when we had to research and physically go to the library and actually thumb through card catalogues, books and magazines?&lt;br /&gt;- when we had a library card in hard paper listing all the books we have borrowed (and hopefully read)?&lt;br /&gt;- when we actually had to go and see a friend  to find out how they're doing and really spend time with them?&lt;br /&gt;- when facebook, youtube, google, did not yet exist?&lt;br /&gt;- when life was much simpler? &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;A good friend and I talked about this today after I gave her a peek into my day as a literacy teacher. We wondered why many students seem to be even more abandoned with the No Child Left Behind Act. We chatted about teaching and learning, about how it was "back in the day", and yes, about how old we must be getting since lately we allude more and more to "back in our days, it was such and such...". This then led to us wondering about where our fast-paced lives, all these advancements in technology and changes in education, government-society are taking us. It is all quite amazing and yet scary at the same time. I feel like something is lost in the process of our inevitably moving forward. I wonder what is to happen ( is already happening OR perhaps even what has already happened) to our moral fiber, sense of purpose, substance,  empathy, critical thinking, IQ, EQ...   &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Then tonight, I stumbled upon the following blog post. It does not seem to be directly related to my above concerns, yet it comforted me and deeply resonated with me. It challenges me as an educator to make sure I really do my very best to make sure that my students really read, write, question, challenge and assert themselves.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A GIRL YOU SHOULD DATE&lt;br /&gt; by Rosemarie Urquico&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants. You see the weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Buy her another cup of coffee.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas and for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry, in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;She has to give it a shot somehow.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who understand that all things will come to end. That you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;That life is meant to have a villain or two.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Or better yet, date a girl who writes.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; http://nonamerah.wordpress.com/2011/10/03/869/?refid=12&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-5416006592737994934?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/5416006592737994934/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=5416006592737994934' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5416006592737994934'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5416006592737994934'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2012/01/thinking-with-girl-you-should-date.html' title='THINKING with &quot;A Girl You Should Date&quot;'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-2970309734901902659</id><published>2011-06-20T11:50:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-20T11:50:42.125-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Baring My Soul: Father’s Day</title><content type='html'>I cannot sleep and still am very much  wide awake at 5:15 am on Father’s Day...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ah Father’s Day …&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One specific topic that strikes me to my very core is my father (or his absence in my life).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Discussing it always turns me - a supposedly strong, confident and accomplished woman, into a young vulnerable girl once again who constantly wonders about, and yearns for her father.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hardly know Papa, yet I miss him a lot. How I ache for him, especially during the past few days, as I prepare for one of the most, if not THE most, important occasions of my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the sun rises today, on father's day, I found myself writing the following poem... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I Wish Papa Were There&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to read me a story &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and tuck me in bed when I was a kid. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to hold my hand on my first day of school&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;or teach me how to ride my first bike.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to share his interests with me &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and laugh and be amazed&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;at how very much alike or different we were&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;yet still insist  that I do take after him&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to cheer for me on graduation day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and beam with pride for my accolades&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and say, “Yep, that’s my baby girl up there”. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to jokingly threaten my boy friends&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to help me nurse a broken heart &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;or my bruised pride&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and give me advice on love and life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;on birthdays and graduations&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;when I landed my first job&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and share all those other moments &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;that have brought me joy and otherwise&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But most of all&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh how I long&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;for Papa to be there&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On my wedding day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To walk me down the aisle&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To give me away to my beloved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And kiss me on the forehead&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we do our father-daughter dance&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I wish Papa were there&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To see his grandchildren grow up&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And shed some truth to what people say&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About grandparents loving their grandchildren&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Much more than their own children&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nonetheless, I know deep down&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That Papa has always been with me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Smiling from up above&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;or perhaps even right next to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Each and every minute of my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So Papa, I thank you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For being a source of strength &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and inspiration. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Who and where I am today&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;is partly and perhaps, even wholly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;because of you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I appreciate and cherish&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the fleeting, &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;yet special moments &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;we spent together. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope you are &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;proud of your little girl. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love you dearly and unstintingly. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Below is one of my favorite father and daughter song, "Butterfly Kisses".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I dedicate this song to Papa and all the other fathers, parents and children out there. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please treasue every moment you have with your loved ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Butterfly Kisses&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by Bob Carlisle&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's two things I know for sure&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She was sent here from heaven&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And she's daddy's little girl&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I drop to my knees by her bed at night&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She talks to Jesus and I close my eyes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I thank God for all of the joy in my life&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh but most of all&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walk beside the pony daddy it's my first ride&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know the cake looks funny daddy but I sure tried&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh with all that I've done wrong&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I must have done something right&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To deserve a hug every mornin'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And butterfly kisses at night&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sweet 16 today&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She's lookin' like her mama a little more every day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One part woman the other part girl&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To perfume and make up from ribbons and curls&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Trying her wings out in a great big world&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I remember&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know how much I love you daddy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But if you don't mind&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm only gonna kiss you on the check this time&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh with all that I've done wrong&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I must have done something right&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To deserve her love every mornin'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And butterfly kisses at night&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All the precious time&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like the wind the years go by&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Precious butterfly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spread your wings and fly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She'll change her name today&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She'll make a promise and I'll give her aways&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Standing in the bride room just staring at her&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She asked me what I'm thinkin'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I said I'm not sure&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just feel like I'm loosin' my baby girl&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And she leaned over&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gave me butterfly kisses with her mama there&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walk me down the isle daddy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's just about time&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does my wedding gown look pretty daddy?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daddy's don't cry&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh with all that I've done wrong&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I must have done something right&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To deserve her love every mornin'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And butterfly kisses&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I couldn't ask God for more than this is what love is&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know I've got to let her go but I'll always remember&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every hug in the mornin' and butterfly kisses&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heouDje_di0&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-2970309734901902659?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/2970309734901902659/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=2970309734901902659' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/2970309734901902659'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/2970309734901902659'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2011/06/baring-my-soul-fathers-day.html' title='Baring My Soul: Father’s Day'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-3838314737000047675</id><published>2011-01-27T13:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-27T13:59:16.456-08:00</updated><title type='text'>CHASING PAVEMENTS</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/TUHneo2NHKI/AAAAAAAAAjw/LEUv9MuV17M/s1600/BLIZZARD2%2B177.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/TUHneo2NHKI/AAAAAAAAAjw/LEUv9MuV17M/s200/BLIZZARD2%2B177.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5566985127953505442" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spent the snow day (no school/work) doing what I love - read poetry, listen to music, play the guitar, sing...&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;I'm tryin to play CHASING PAVEMENTS by Adele. I love the artist, the music and the video.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Disclaimer: The song in no way reflects on my current relationship. &lt;br /&gt;Songs, poetry, many forms of art (I bawled as I thought of Papa while watching "Everybody's Fine" last night)  just really strike to my very core. I guess I am a hopeless empath... &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Interesting trivia I learned about the song:&lt;br /&gt;The song was inspired by an incident Adele had with a former boyfriend of six months. At 6:00 AM one morning, after learning he had cheated on her, she went to the bar he was at and punched him in the face. After being thrown out, Adele ran down the street alone and thought to herself, "What is it you're chasing? You're chasing an empty pavement." She sang it into her cellphone and arranged three chords when she got home.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;I've made up my mind, don't need to think it over&lt;br /&gt;If I'm wrong I am right, don't need to look no further&lt;br /&gt;This ain't lust, I know this is love&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;But if I tell the world, I'll never say enough&lt;br /&gt;'Cause it was not said to you&lt;br /&gt;And that's exactly what I need to do if I'd end up with you&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Should I give up or should I just keep chasing pavements&lt;br /&gt;Even if it leads nowhere?&lt;br /&gt;Or would it be a waste even if I knew my place&lt;br /&gt;Should I leave it there?&lt;br /&gt;Should I give up or should I just keep chasing pavements&lt;br /&gt;Even if it leads nowhere?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;I build myself up and fly around in circles&lt;br /&gt;Wait then as my heart drops and my back begins to tingle&lt;br /&gt;Finally could this be it?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08DjMT-qR9g&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-3838314737000047675?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/3838314737000047675/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=3838314737000047675' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/3838314737000047675'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/3838314737000047675'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2011/01/chasing-pavements.html' title='CHASING PAVEMENTS'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/TUHneo2NHKI/AAAAAAAAAjw/LEUv9MuV17M/s72-c/BLIZZARD2%2B177.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-894591463134712998</id><published>2010-09-23T21:50:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-23T21:56:52.518-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Linger on the Joyful Mysteries of Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/TJwvF-EdfXI/AAAAAAAAAJA/Lmz-F3eMJgQ/s1600/4TH+OF+JULY+099.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/TJwvF-EdfXI/AAAAAAAAAJA/Lmz-F3eMJgQ/s200/4TH+OF+JULY+099.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5520339022856945010" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we... have leisure to indulge our memories,&lt;br /&gt;we should choose with care the memories we indulge...&lt;br /&gt;They shape our moods.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;If we are seduced into ...&lt;br /&gt;sore memories, resentments and grievances,&lt;br /&gt;then people will avoid us.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;The world is hard enough&lt;br /&gt;without doses of other people’s gloom to darken it.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;But we can lift our own and others’ moods&lt;br /&gt;if we linger on the joyful mysteries of our life,&lt;br /&gt;on the people we love&lt;br /&gt;and the experiences that we feel  as blessings.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;We don’t want to bore our friends&lt;br /&gt;with complacency or boastfulness.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Gratitude for God’s gifts is different.&lt;br /&gt;It is one of the basic themes&lt;br /&gt;of any mature spirituality,&lt;br /&gt;and it makes us easy to live with. &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;* http://sacredspace.ie/&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-894591463134712998?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/894591463134712998/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=894591463134712998' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/894591463134712998'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/894591463134712998'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/09/linger-on-joyful-mysteries-of-life.html' title='Linger on the Joyful Mysteries of Life'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/TJwvF-EdfXI/AAAAAAAAAJA/Lmz-F3eMJgQ/s72-c/4TH+OF+JULY+099.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-6822716601610507384</id><published>2010-05-03T13:54:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-03T14:45:16.026-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cityscape: Surveying the Urban Biotope</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S989j4vJbeI/AAAAAAAAAIM/J84wHQ3-A9I/s1600/P1010678.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 112px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S989j4vJbeI/AAAAAAAAAIM/J84wHQ3-A9I/s200/P1010678.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467156159385923042" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S98862YDA_I/AAAAAAAAAIE/Jv6cSDYWZd8/s1600/P1010664.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S98862YDA_I/AAAAAAAAAIE/Jv6cSDYWZd8/s200/P1010664.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467155454377526258" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S988CDwy2uI/AAAAAAAAAH8/DSiIJfHoj0c/s1600/P1010648.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S988CDwy2uI/AAAAAAAAAH8/DSiIJfHoj0c/s200/P1010648.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467154478718442210" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S988BjnSx_I/AAAAAAAAAH0/KM5-wJPaZtw/s1600/P1010647.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S988BjnSx_I/AAAAAAAAAH0/KM5-wJPaZtw/s200/P1010647.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467154470088656882" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;85-degree Sunday was a good day to pack my bag with a blanket, books, badminton &amp; boyfriend :-) and head out to the park.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The day got even better when we found out that it was the opening day of "Cityscape: Surveying the Urban Biotope" The park was filled with art works exploring the presence of nature in the fabric of urban life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Other than the art pieces, it was a gorgeous day to be in the park, bump into friends, and observe the:&lt;br /&gt;- dogs, children and adults walking, playing and running around the park&lt;br /&gt;- amazing concentration of the man doing tai chi&lt;br /&gt;- ice cream truck luring everybody to get cold and yummy frozen goodies&lt;br /&gt;- neso sound asleep oblivious of the dog licking his leg&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I LOVE NEW YORK!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;May 2, 2010; Socrates Sculpture Park, LIC, NYC&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-6822716601610507384?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/6822716601610507384/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=6822716601610507384' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6822716601610507384'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6822716601610507384'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/05/cityscape-surveying-urban-biotope.html' title='Cityscape: Surveying the Urban Biotope'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S989j4vJbeI/AAAAAAAAAIM/J84wHQ3-A9I/s72-c/P1010678.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-5606753057203265539</id><published>2010-04-22T20:31:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-23T04:21:34.825-07:00</updated><title type='text'>New York People &amp; Places</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCgUHfGEI/AAAAAAAAAHs/YMD1hC0zxLo/s1600/P1010391.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCgUHfGEI/AAAAAAAAAHs/YMD1hC0zxLo/s200/P1010391.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5463291314644654146" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCgJUhUVI/AAAAAAAAAHk/87Wnj5DGzcc/s1600/P1010388.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCgJUhUVI/AAAAAAAAAHk/87Wnj5DGzcc/s200/P1010388.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5463291311746535762" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCfkOyolI/AAAAAAAAAHc/QSeGKUtIfAQ/s1600/P1010385.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCfkOyolI/AAAAAAAAAHc/QSeGKUtIfAQ/s200/P1010385.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5463291301790392914" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every year, I give a mini-talk to my former grad school professor's class at Long Island University. After the second session yesterday, he introduced me to Rachel, an undergrad student of his from the Philippines.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We hit it off right away and spent the rest of the evening checking out the beautiful neighborhood of Clinton Hill and ended up having dinner at Umi Nom (Filipino-Thai Resto)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's really amazing how we make connections with people. Discovering the lovely Clinton Hill neighborhood was also amazing. More things to love NYC - its places and people =).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As wiki describes Clinton Hill:&lt;br /&gt;Clinton Hill is a neighborhood in the north-central portion of the borough of Brooklyn in New York City. It is bordered on the east by Bedford-Stuyvesant, on the west by Fort Greene, on the north by Wallabout Bay and on the south by Prospect Heights. The neighborhood is served by the NYPD's 88th Precinct.[1]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the 1840s, Clinton Hill had become a fashionable neighborhood for the wealthy of Brooklyn, who could commute to Manhattan by way of stagecoach to the Fulton Ferry in nearby Brooklyn Heights. By the 1880s and '90s, Clinton Avenue was lined with mansions of millionaires, many of which have survived to the present day. The most prominent of these are linked to Charles Pratt, who built a mansion for himself and one each as wedding presents for three of his four sons (pictured, right). These four mansions can be seen on Clinton Avenue between DeKalb and Willoughby. The Pratt Institute of Art, founded by Charles Pratt in 1887, is located a few blocks from his former home. Due in part to the presence of Pratt Institute the neighborhood boasts an increasing arts community, and many bohemians are flocking towards the yet-to-be gentrified industrial areas adjacent to the Brooklyn Navy Yard.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-5606753057203265539?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/5606753057203265539/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=5606753057203265539' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5606753057203265539'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5606753057203265539'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/04/new-york-people-places.html' title='New York People &amp; Places'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S9GCgUHfGEI/AAAAAAAAAHs/YMD1hC0zxLo/s72-c/P1010391.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-4713196569999379991</id><published>2010-04-18T17:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-18T21:04:46.728-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Counting</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ug0dGloAI/AAAAAAAAAG8/lJ0MzvByKHc/s1600/P1010377.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ug0dGloAI/AAAAAAAAAG8/lJ0MzvByKHc/s200/P1010377.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5461635796142759938" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ug0M0eRXI/AAAAAAAAAG0/ExZAkIYiw2E/s1600/P1010376.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ug0M0eRXI/AAAAAAAAAG0/ExZAkIYiw2E/s200/P1010376.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5461635791771813234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ugzjwmVjI/AAAAAAAAAGs/O9_6QTEv9X8/s1600/P1010373.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ugzjwmVjI/AAAAAAAAAGs/O9_6QTEv9X8/s200/P1010373.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5461635780749710898" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is good. Count your blessings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is one of the things that I always tell myself. This weekend, has given me many things to be thankful for. I tried to capture these through snapshots that I compiled in my online album.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- reconnected with an old student/theater colleague. Last time I saw him was 9 years ago.&lt;br /&gt;- finally tasted the food at “Taverna Kyclade”s, acclaimed as the best Greek Restaurant in NYC&lt;br /&gt;- had a fun date night with the extremely entertaining “Kick Ass” movie and enjoyed the rain on the way home &lt;br /&gt;- had a get-together with friends and video shoot for our $10 Initiative non-profit organization (www.tendollarinitiative.org)&lt;br /&gt;- checked out Astoria neighborhood on Greek Independence Day&lt;br /&gt;- enjoyed spring weather, flowers in bloom and beautiful scenery&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I continue counting...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-4713196569999379991?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/4713196569999379991/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=4713196569999379991' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/4713196569999379991'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/4713196569999379991'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/04/counting.html' title='Counting'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8ug0dGloAI/AAAAAAAAAG8/lJ0MzvByKHc/s72-c/P1010377.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-5008769703656801336</id><published>2010-04-15T14:24:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T15:05:28.722-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Conduct your blooming in the noise and discipline of the whirlwind</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eNeAzLGII/AAAAAAAAAGk/EiwNWN7WQdE/s1600/P1010339.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eNeAzLGII/AAAAAAAAAGk/EiwNWN7WQdE/s200/P1010339.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460488619960244354" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eNdi4gBPI/AAAAAAAAAGc/DAU66Wf8UzI/s1600/P1010341.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eNdi4gBPI/AAAAAAAAAGc/DAU66Wf8UzI/s200/P1010341.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460488611929523442" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eL7diH45I/AAAAAAAAAGU/Hkl1e7kq2Ww/s1600/P1010343.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eL7diH45I/AAAAAAAAAGU/Hkl1e7kq2Ww/s320/P1010343.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460486926866310034" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eL7LWlqSI/AAAAAAAAAGM/GBWL0BRtVhs/s1600/P1010340.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eL7LWlqSI/AAAAAAAAAGM/GBWL0BRtVhs/s320/P1010340.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460486921986091298" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As much as using the New York City subway system is a pain, I must give props to the many art work in the different stations. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, on my way home, I was early enough to miss the crazy (and sometimes brutal) New York City rush hour. I took my time and enjoyed going up the steps without battling with the usual sea of humanity. It was eerily quiet and almost empty.  I enjoyed the silence, the space and yes, THE MOSAIC ART! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The 59th Street and Lexington Avenue station was decorated with a colorful large-scale mosaic mural entitled Blooming, by Elizabeth Murray. The words "Conduct your blooming in the noise and discipline of the whirlwind" float from the coffee cups immortalizing Gwendolyn Brooks’s words. As Murray says in an interview about her art, "I had this vision of people getting up really early, half in a dream state, putting on their clothes, drinking a cup of coffee and getting on the subway to go to work".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s interesting to know that a lot of this ceramic work began when the subway system originally opened on October 27, 1904. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things like this are reasons why I love New York.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-5008769703656801336?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/5008769703656801336/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=5008769703656801336' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5008769703656801336'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5008769703656801336'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/04/conduct-your-blooming-in-noise-and.html' title='Conduct your blooming in the noise and discipline of the whirlwind'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8eNeAzLGII/AAAAAAAAAGk/EiwNWN7WQdE/s72-c/P1010339.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-6174559862075859098</id><published>2010-04-11T18:14:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-11T18:17:56.062-07:00</updated><title type='text'>BRUNCH</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8J0hgT5KjI/AAAAAAAAAGE/NTEt8-HmHv0/s1600/diwine2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8J0hgT5KjI/AAAAAAAAAGE/NTEt8-HmHv0/s320/diwine2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5459053817284340274" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8J0hXn35DI/AAAAAAAAAF8/04Xlj52JJfA/s1600/diwine.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8J0hXn35DI/AAAAAAAAAF8/04Xlj52JJfA/s320/diwine.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5459053814952223794" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=''&gt;&lt;p style='text-align: center'&gt;"It is a true saying that a man must eat … with his friend before he knows him."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style='text-align: center'&gt;-- Miguel de Cervantes, 'Don Quixote&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style='text-align: center'&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style='text-align: center'&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A friend of mine organized a brunch at our neighborhood yesterday. I went to the brunch knowing only three people, and left the restaurant knowing five more.  Food really brings people together.  The brunch was at DiWine, a Euro wine bar that also had a variety of good brunch menu to offer a classic restaurant experience. We enjoyed unlimited drinks (the bellini was my favorite) while enjoying the food, conversation and company. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;On our way home, we stopped by the pet shop and ogled at adorable huskies, then continued to enjoy the nice spring weather as we walked home. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-6174559862075859098?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/6174559862075859098/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=6174559862075859098' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6174559862075859098'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6174559862075859098'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/04/brunch.html' title='BRUNCH'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S8J0hgT5KjI/AAAAAAAAAGE/NTEt8-HmHv0/s72-c/diwine2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-7947853328114559003</id><published>2010-04-09T14:02:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-09T15:31:59.456-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Changing of the Seasons</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7-Z7US5dYI/AAAAAAAAAFk/O8ApukBp76s/s1600/P1010315.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7-Z7US5dYI/AAAAAAAAAFk/O8ApukBp76s/s320/P1010315.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458250517735634306" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I headed home today, I noticed how quickly the leaves and blossoms have came out. &lt;br /&gt;The changing of seasons is really so amazing. (",)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-7947853328114559003?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/7947853328114559003/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=7947853328114559003' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/7947853328114559003'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/7947853328114559003'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/04/changing-of-seasons.html' title='Changing of the Seasons'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7-Z7US5dYI/AAAAAAAAAFk/O8ApukBp76s/s72-c/P1010315.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-4195159887407007398</id><published>2010-04-07T14:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-07T14:36:21.306-07:00</updated><title type='text'>RETREAT</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z6kA60b7I/AAAAAAAAAFM/CgdMnvoG5_0/s1600/P1010046.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z6kA60b7I/AAAAAAAAAFM/CgdMnvoG5_0/s320/P1010046.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5457512345095139250" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two good friends and I went on our yearly Holy Week Retreat.&lt;br /&gt;It was very rejuvenating to our mind, body and spirit.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-4195159887407007398?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/4195159887407007398/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=4195159887407007398' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/4195159887407007398'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/4195159887407007398'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/04/retreat.html' title='RETREAT'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z6kA60b7I/AAAAAAAAAFM/CgdMnvoG5_0/s72-c/P1010046.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-6178983888831550482</id><published>2010-03-10T20:46:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-04-07T14:48:07.085-07:00</updated><title type='text'>HOMOPHOBIA</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z8-6l73FI/AAAAAAAAAFc/M5Ucw4xSzJg/s1600/SafeZoneStopSign.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z8-6l73FI/AAAAAAAAAFc/M5Ucw4xSzJg/s320/SafeZoneStopSign.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5457515006276656210" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=''&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Today, I attended a workshop on CONFRONTING HOMOPHOBIA in our SCHOOLS &amp;amp; CURRICULUM  sponsored by Facing History and Ourselves. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was tremendously Challenged... Inspired ... Enlightened ... Refreshed to engage in relevant, powerful and empowering conversations and initiatives. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We need to change this world where heterosexuality is THE ONLY NORM.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-6178983888831550482?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/6178983888831550482/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=6178983888831550482' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6178983888831550482'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6178983888831550482'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/03/homophobia.html' title='HOMOPHOBIA'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z8-6l73FI/AAAAAAAAAFc/M5Ucw4xSzJg/s72-c/SafeZoneStopSign.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-7450996504473020052</id><published>2010-03-08T19:58:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-04-07T14:40:11.488-07:00</updated><title type='text'>W O M A N</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z7JnKWR4I/AAAAAAAAAFU/Hv1EFqOSxmI/s1600/rosie+the+riveter.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 242px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z7JnKWR4I/AAAAAAAAAFU/Hv1EFqOSxmI/s320/rosie+the+riveter.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5457512991015978882" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=''&gt;&lt;p style='text-align: center'/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-7450996504473020052?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/7450996504473020052/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=7450996504473020052' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/7450996504473020052'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/7450996504473020052'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/03/w-o-m-n.html' title='W O M A N'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S7z7JnKWR4I/AAAAAAAAAFU/Hv1EFqOSxmI/s72-c/rosie+the+riveter.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-5988234827474621196</id><published>2010-03-08T19:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T19:30:32.831-08:00</updated><title type='text'>International Women's Day</title><content type='html'>Happy International Women's Day to all my fabulous and beautiful HERMANA (",)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Below are two of my favorite songs about the wonderful being that is  W O M A N. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She's Always A Woman (Billy Joel)&lt;br /&gt;She can kill with a smile&lt;br /&gt;She can wound with her eyes&lt;br /&gt;She can ruin your faith with her casual lies&lt;br /&gt;And she only reveals what she wants you to see&lt;br /&gt;She hides like a child,&lt;br /&gt;But she's always a woman to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She can lead you to love&lt;br /&gt;She can take you or leave you&lt;br /&gt;She can ask for the truth&lt;br /&gt;But she'll never believe you&lt;br /&gt;And she'll take what you give her, as long as it's free&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, she steals like a thief&lt;br /&gt;But she's always a woman to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh--she takes care of herself&lt;br /&gt;She can wait if she wants&lt;br /&gt;She's ahead of her time&lt;br /&gt;Oh--and she never gives out&lt;br /&gt;And she never gives in&lt;br /&gt;She just changes her mind&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And she'll promise you more&lt;br /&gt;Than the Garden of Eden&lt;br /&gt;Then she'll carelessly cut you&lt;br /&gt;And laugh while you're bleedin'&lt;br /&gt;But she'll bring out the best&lt;br /&gt;And the worst you can be&lt;br /&gt;Blame it all on yourself&lt;br /&gt;Cause she's always a woman to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She is frequently kind&lt;br /&gt;And she's suddenly cruel&lt;br /&gt;She can do as she pleases&lt;br /&gt;She's nobody's fool&lt;br /&gt;And she can't be convicted&lt;br /&gt;She's earned her degree&lt;br /&gt;And the most she will do&lt;br /&gt;Is throw shadows at you&lt;br /&gt;But she's always a woman to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Everything" (Michael Buble)&lt;br /&gt;You're a falling star, you're the get away car.&lt;br /&gt;You're the line in the sand when I go too far.&lt;br /&gt;You're the swimming pool, on an August day.&lt;br /&gt;And you're the perfect thing to say.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And you play it coy but it's kinda cute.&lt;br /&gt;When you smile at me you know exactly what you do.&lt;br /&gt;Baby don't pretend that you don't know it's true.&lt;br /&gt;'cause you can see it when I look at you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times&lt;br /&gt;It's you, it's you, you make me sing.&lt;br /&gt;You're every line, you're every word, you're everything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You're a carousel, you're a wishing well,&lt;br /&gt;And you light me up, when you ring my bell.&lt;br /&gt;You're a mystery, you're from outer space,&lt;br /&gt;You're every minute of my everyday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I   CELEBRATE   BEING   A   WOMAN   (",)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire..." (Washington Irving)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-5988234827474621196?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/5988234827474621196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=5988234827474621196' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5988234827474621196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/5988234827474621196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/03/happy-international-womens-day.html' title='International Women&apos;s Day'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-49838325997901693</id><published>2010-02-21T20:34:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-21T20:34:54.876-08:00</updated><title type='text'>MY FIRST TIME IN TEXAS</title><content type='html'>AUSTIN, TEXAS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4IH6B5YOtI/AAAAAAAAAD0/NnssHyLpFH4/s1600-h/P1000010.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4IH6B5YOtI/AAAAAAAAAD0/NnssHyLpFH4/s200/P1000010.JPG" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4IIni4s6MI/AAAAAAAAAD8/BeAopK6WcNg/s1600-h/P1000011.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4IIni4s6MI/AAAAAAAAAD8/BeAopK6WcNg/s320/P1000011.JPG" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-49838325997901693?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/49838325997901693/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=49838325997901693' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/49838325997901693'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/49838325997901693'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/my-first-time-in-texas.html' title='MY FIRST TIME IN TEXAS'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4IH6B5YOtI/AAAAAAAAAD0/NnssHyLpFH4/s72-c/P1000010.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-1074823596452859349</id><published>2010-02-18T21:15:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-18T21:24:43.970-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Mardi-Gras in New Orleans</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34ezFE1tNI/AAAAAAAAADs/Mmz7bPX596c/s1600-h/mardi+gras3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34ezFE1tNI/AAAAAAAAADs/Mmz7bPX596c/s200/mardi+gras3.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34eDNSkIQI/AAAAAAAAADU/jD3bLpr6ayY/s1600-h/mardi+gras4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34eDNSkIQI/AAAAAAAAADU/jD3bLpr6ayY/s200/mardi+gras4.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Mardi-Gras is of course a relic of the French and Spanish occupation;          but I judge that the religious feature has been pretty well knocked out          of it now. Sir Walter has got the advantage of the gentlemen of the cowl          and rosary, and he will stay. His medieval business, supplemented by the          monsters and the oddities, and the pleasant creatures from fairy-land,          is finer to look at than the poor fantastic inventions and performances          of the reveling rabble of the priest's day, and serves quite as well,          perhaps, to emphasize the day and admonish men that the grace-line between          the worldly season and the holy one is reached."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Mark Twain's &lt;i&gt;Life on the Mississippi&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34el7hVeEI/AAAAAAAAADc/U9xQMlUxGSQ/s1600-h/mardi+gras.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34el7hVeEI/AAAAAAAAADc/U9xQMlUxGSQ/s200/mardi+gras.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34eulfgJ0I/AAAAAAAAADk/I_9Djsxhbsk/s1600-h/mardi+gras2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34eulfgJ0I/AAAAAAAAADk/I_9Djsxhbsk/s200/mardi+gras2.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-1074823596452859349?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/1074823596452859349/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=1074823596452859349' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/1074823596452859349'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/1074823596452859349'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/mardi-gras-in-new-orleans.html' title='Mardi-Gras in New Orleans'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S34ezFE1tNI/AAAAAAAAADs/Mmz7bPX596c/s72-c/mardi+gras3.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-2349221602864991539</id><published>2010-02-13T22:58:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-13T23:26:33.288-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Kung Hei Fat Choi</title><content type='html'>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3ejoHFbyOI/AAAAAAAAAC0/8eBhFM1BnEo/s1600-h/113.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" ct="true" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3ejoHFbyOI/AAAAAAAAAC0/8eBhFM1BnEo/s200/113.JPG" width="150" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;It's already February 14 in Asia. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kung Hei Fat Choi... Gong Xi Fa Cai… Greetings to everyone who celebrates Chinese New Year. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;In the five years when I was a teacher at Xavier School, I celebrated Chinese New Year. Now living in NYC, I intensely miss the people, festivities, souvenirs and FOOD associated with the Chinese New Year celebration in XS.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;I have XS to thank for immersing me in the Chinese -Filipino culture. Xavier is a Filipino Chinese Jesuit school in the Philippines where I absolutely fell in love with teaching. (Sigh…I miss Xavier. Xavier will be a totally separate blog entry since it IS such a big part of my life… )&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;On to Chinese New Year lest I digress some more…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Chinese New Year 4708, or 2010 in the Western calendar, is the Year of the Metal Tiger. Like the houses of the zodiac in the Western astrology, animals of Chinese astrology are thought by many to dictate personality traits or, in the wider scope of things, even impact world events.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I was born in the Year of the Snake. Let's see if the descriptions are true for me.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Snake personality traits&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like a deep river, Snake people are usually placid on the surface, but their thoughts and emotions run very deep. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;Quiet and unassuming, they prefer to work by themselves and are more often in the spotlight for their real and lasting accomplishments than for outward attempts at garnering attention. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;Snakes hate to fail, and are very lucky when it comes to making money. With reputations for being hoarders, they are very frugal and careful about lending money to friends for frivolous reasons. However, they often show extraordinary sympathy when presented with an opportunity to help those who are truly in need.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;Essentially loners, Snake people commonly keep their own counsel and rely on themselves to get ahead in life, mistrusting others' thoughts and opinions on matters of the utmost importance. Facts, too, get in the way of decision making for most Snakes, who prefer to use their own deeply held feelings and intuition in negotiating life's crossroads.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;In matters of the heart, Snakes can be deeply amorous, jealous in nature, and do not handle rejection well at all. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;And woe to those who betray the trust and affection of the passionate snake! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;In business dealings, Snake people command respect for their accomplishments and can enjoy great success as teachers (:&amp;amp;gt; yey!), writers or philosphers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Snakes are most compatible with :&lt;/strong&gt; Ox, Rooster&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Famous people born in the Year of the Snake:&lt;/strong&gt; Martha Stewart, Oprah Winfrey, Kanye West&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;Dick Cheney, Bob Dylan, John F. Kennedy, James Joyce, Pablo Picasso&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffd966; font-size: 18pt;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;** Hmm… can I own up to these personality traits? (",)**&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="source: http://www.chiff.com/home_life/holiday/chinese-new-year-snake.htm"&gt;Source: http://www.chiff.com/home_life/holiday/chinese-new-year-snake.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-2349221602864991539?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/2349221602864991539/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=2349221602864991539' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/2349221602864991539'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/2349221602864991539'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/kung-hei-fat-choi_13.html' title='Kung Hei Fat Choi'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3ejoHFbyOI/AAAAAAAAAC0/8eBhFM1BnEo/s72-c/113.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-3368053014415625002</id><published>2010-02-12T23:21:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-13T00:30:34.782-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Fréond*</title><content type='html'>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="color: cyan; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;"I count myselt in nothing else so happy&lt;br /&gt;As in a soul rememb'ring my good friends." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;- William Shakespeare&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt; &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;"I love having those friends where years could pass, and it's as if you saw them just the day before. "&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;AMZ posted this on facebook after our impromptu dinner date.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;Everyday, we get so caught up with the motions and demands of our own lives that if we do not make an effort, it would be so difficult to stay connected with friends, especially those whom we are not in contact with on a daily basis. Days, weeks, months and years can go by without us being connected with these people. Yet, despite time, distance and different circumstances, there are friends who you rarely see, but when you do, it feels like you were just together the day before.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3Zc0DbKQfI/AAAAAAAAACs/IwBuzNCuzxA/s1600-h/flocafe.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="135" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3Zc0DbKQfI/AAAAAAAAACs/IwBuzNCuzxA/s200/flocafe.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;This was the case for AMZ and me today. Though we live in the same city, we had not seen each other for two years. Yes, we send instant messages here and there, but nothing can still compare to the quality and experience of the face-to-face conversation we had tonight over dinner. There's nothing like good conversation over&amp;nbsp; good food with good company. (Flo Lounge Restarant was a great choice, A&amp;nbsp; :&amp;gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;Today, I've had the chance to reconnect with a few more of my friends.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;There's LD&amp;nbsp; with whom I shared a spirited phone conversation tonight. It was nice to reminisce about the past, talk about how we learn from them and how we gain 'wisdom' and more character over time, and sure, throw out some 'what-ifs' too...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;Then there's always TN who I consider my kindred spirit. I continue to admire her and be inspired by her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;And of course, there's ever loyal and strong-hearted AO who has been my best friend since high school.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;There are so many more special people who I will write about later. You know who you are.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;Here's to the special people in my life who remind me of the kind of friendship that transcends time and space. Thank you for the gift of your wonderful friendship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;" xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;*FRIENDSHIP - of Germanic origin, and related to the Old English &lt;i&gt;fréond&lt;/i&gt; with the same meaning, and the Old Teutonic&lt;i&gt; frijôjan,&lt;/i&gt; to love.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-3368053014415625002?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/3368053014415625002/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=3368053014415625002' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/3368053014415625002'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/3368053014415625002'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/freond.html' title='Fréond*'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3Zc0DbKQfI/AAAAAAAAACs/IwBuzNCuzxA/s72-c/flocafe.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-6238434337663626100</id><published>2010-02-11T21:37:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-11T21:49:44.471-08:00</updated><title type='text'>POESIA</title><content type='html'>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;"&lt;a href="http://thinkexist.com/quotation/a_man_should_hear_a_little_music-read_a_little/13824.html"&gt;A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul.&lt;/a&gt;"&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;a href="http://thinkexist.com/quotes/johann_wolfgang_von_goethe/"&gt;- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Today was not the usual hectic day at work – several students were absent, perhaps due to the aftermath of the snow storm. It gave me the chance to sit with my students and spend a little more quality and personal time with them. In particular, I spent some time talking about poetry with 'A' who is very quiet and shy. I learned that other than graffiti art, she was also into poetry. She shared with me the different types of poems she learned in middle school. It is impressive that she still remembers the many different types and how easily she composed poem after poem  as I sat next to her. I loved how her eyes twinkled and her face beamed as she read her newly-written poems to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;In Humanities class, after watching a few clips from "When the Levees Broke", we had quite a powerful discussion about race, responsibility and identity. Our students shared pretty profound observations and insights. It is amazing how they can take one topic/task at a higher level. When asked to freewrite about a place they long for, 'R' later shared an evocative poem about longing to be back in his mother's arms. It's safe to say that the class was blown away by his personal poem.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;During lunch, one of my advisees presented her autobiography.&amp;nbsp; It was another opportunity to see a student outside her 'student' persona. Our school's autobiography goal is to help students understand that by reflecting on their personal history, they will better understand how the people, places and events of their past have shaped who they are today and deepen their sense of self. 'N' has surely exhibited that. She also showed me how much strength she has. At such a young age, our students have gone through and are going through so many challenging times, yet, they continue to show up filled with energy and smile to school everyday. I draw strength from them (as much as I say they take so much energy from me after a draining day). Their strength, insight and wisdom are truly remarkable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Tonight, another student emailed me his written autobiography piece which he will be presenting tomorrow. After reading it, I emailed him back saying that it was one of the best ones I have ever read. It was very descriptive, well-written and genuine. I can't wait for his visual and oral presentation tomorrow. I feel very honored that he asked me to sit in his autobiography committee.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;I am grateful for opportunities to get to know my students at a deeper level. I vow to continue to get to know my students at a more personal level. Before "students", "sons", "sisters", and other titles assigned to them, they are "persons" first above anything else – with their own interests, attributes, strengths and quirks. It is truly a great honor to get to know these wonderful people, and indeed, I find it a great pleasure to know each of them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Yes. Today was quite a good and 'poetic' day indeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-6238434337663626100?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/6238434337663626100/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=6238434337663626100' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6238434337663626100'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/6238434337663626100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/poesia_11.html' title='POESIA'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-4237431562793813278</id><published>2010-02-10T13:42:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-10T15:23:21.983-08:00</updated><title type='text'>CLASSROOM SNIPPETS</title><content type='html'>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;I love what I do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;There's never a dull day in the classroom - no moment is ever the same; no class is ever alike.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Here are snippets of how my day was yesterday:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;BLOCK 1:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;I was modeling to my students how to fill out a writing bank ('my writing territories' sheet). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Teacher Jo-Ann:   "Help me fill out my writing bank. What is one thing that I love the most?" (I was thinking of music.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Students:               "Teaching"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;… And my heart just melted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;BLOCK 2:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Tough-looking student: "Do you have a writing utensil I can borrow? Thank you…"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Wow! That's something I rarely hear anymore these days? Usually it's more like Yo! I need a pen". &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Hmm… there is still hope in the human race …&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-4237431562793813278?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/4237431562793813278/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=4237431562793813278' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/4237431562793813278'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/4237431562793813278'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/my-classroom-snippets.html' title='CLASSROOM SNIPPETS'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524494889962689406.post-8715793223502779062</id><published>2010-02-10T12:57:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-10T13:50:16.714-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.  ~William Wordsworth</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3Mp22SZzkI/AAAAAAAAACk/UXaHTYmj1rY/s1600-h/P1010565.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3Mp22SZzkI/AAAAAAAAACk/UXaHTYmj1rY/s320/P1010565.JPG" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;FINALLY – after a hiatus, I have decided to write again.  This year, I vow to continue pursuing my passions and interests. Writing is at the top of the list next to music, reading, poetry, art, photography, volunteering and traveling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Everyday, I'd tell myself, "Okay, just scribble some words and begin." Yet, I get sidetracked and find seemingly more pressing matters to do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Yet today, it seems like I was sent a message not to wait any longer but to start writing  now. Work has been called off due to the winter storm –blowing snow and blizzard warning. Hmm… this would make for a nice day of writing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;So here I am …&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;Where should I begin? And I was brought to entries of blog's past (&lt;a href="http://dimbermort.blog.friendster.com/"&gt;http://dimbermort.blog.friendster.com/&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span xmlns=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/524494889962689406-8715793223502779062?l=alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/8715793223502779062/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=524494889962689406&amp;postID=8715793223502779062' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/8715793223502779062'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/524494889962689406/posts/default/8715793223502779062'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://alaiyosmusings.blogspot.com/2010/02/fill-your-paper-with-breathings-of-your.html' title='Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.  ~William Wordsworth'/><author><name>A L A I Y O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222999512335432611</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S4yeEVxJlYI/AAAAAAAAAEE/-8VEhpR5xW0/S220/HATI+LOVE.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_yb3pgPVzRSU/S3Mp22SZzkI/AAAAAAAAACk/UXaHTYmj1rY/s72-c/P1010565.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
